Description: In Loving What Is bestselling author Byron Katie introduced thousands of people to her simple and profound method of finding happiness through questioning the mind. Now I Need Your Love Is That True? examines a universal age - old source of anxiety: our relationships with others. In this groundbreaking book Katie helps you question everything you have been taught to do to gain love and approval. In doing this you discover how to find genuine love and connection. The usual advice offered in self - help books and reinforced by our culture advocates a stressful all - consuming quest for love and approval. We are advised to learn self - marketing and manipulative skills how to attract impress seduce and often pretend to be something we aren t. This approach doesn t work. It leaves millions of walking wounded those who having failed to find love or appreciation blame themselves and conclude that they are unworthy of love. I Need Your Love Is That True? helps you illuminate every area in your life where you seem to lack what you long for most the love of your spouse the respect of your child a lover's tenderness or the esteem of your boss. Through its penetrating inquiry you will quickly discover the falseness of the accepted ways of seeking love and approval and also of the mythology that equates love with need. Using the method in this book you will inquire into painful beliefs that you ve based your whole life on and be delighted to see them evaporate. Katie shows you how unraveling the knots in the search for love approval and appreciation brings real love and puts you in charge of your own happiness. Everyone agrees that love is wonderful except when it's terrible. People spend their whole lives tantalized by love seeking it trying to hold on to it or trying to get over it. Not far behind love as major preoccupations come approval and appreciation. From childhood on most people spend much of their energy in a relentless pursuit of these things trying out different methods to be noticed to please to impress and to win other people's love thinking that's just the way life is. This effort can become so constant and unquestioned that we barely notice it anymore. This book takes a close look at what works and what doesn t in the quest for love and approval. It will help you find a way to be happier in love and more effective in all your relationships. What you learn here will bring fulfillment to all kinds of relationships including romantic love dating marriage work and friendship. Byron Katie
Title: I Need Your Love - Is That True? How To Stop Seeking Love Approval And Appreciation And Start Finding Them Instead
Barcode: 9780307345301
Publication Date: 11/28/2006